今天翻唱這首溫馨的歌曲 “慢慢喜歡你”(演唱 -莫文蔚 。 詞曲-李榮浩)。
我從小就渴望非常真實的關係。
我寫的第一首創作歌曲就是 “愛我的所有“,歌詞裡面講道的是希望沒有化妝,披頭散髮還是有人可以愛我。希望有人可以知道並且接受我的缺點和優點(因為很多時候一個人的特質可能是優點,在其他狀況之下也可能會變成缺點)。
對我來說,愛情一定要從認識和做好朋友開始,一定要慢慢來。如果你的伴侶是你最好的朋友/最認識你的人,那個愛裡就不會有恐懼和隱瞞。
要徹底認識一個人需要時間和耐心。
個人認為:慢慢發展,以尊重和友誼為基礎的親密才能夠長久。
因為愛是選擇。我認識/了解你才能夠真的選擇愛最真實的你,而不是追求一個夢幻的對象或童話故事而已。這樣才能 #一路愛到底 :)
Next in the #Keepyourloveonseries is a lovely little ballad called “Growing Fond of You”.
Since I started writing songs, I’ve often expressed the almost universal need to be loved as I was, with braces and messy bed hair.
Which human being does not want to be accepted and loved, talents warts and all? (Point to ponder: our unique characteristics can be both a strength or a weakness in different circumstances.
Relationships with genuine friendship as a foundation rarely falter midway. Why? Because in getting to know each other as we are (with no fantasy-colored lenses on), we eliminate the need for hiding and for fear of our real selves being found out.
Intimacy built on genuine understanding and friendship will probably stand the test of time better.
Hope you enjoy this little cover video!
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